Not everyone feels that a traditional religious funeral is the right way to say goodbye. For many families in Guernsey, non-religious options such as humanist funerals and celebrations of life are becoming increasingly popular.

While both services honour a person’s life in a meaningful way, they each have a slightly different focus. Understanding these differences can help you choose the service that best reflects your loved one’s beliefs, personality, and the wishes of your family.

Learn more about the funerals at Beckfords. 

What is a Humanist Funeral?

A humanist funeral is a non-religious service that celebrates a person’s life without prayers, hymns, or religious readings. Instead, the emphasis is placed on:

• Sharing the life story of the person who has died.
• Reflecting on their character, values, and achievements.
• Including music, poetry, or readings that are meaningful to the family.

Humanist funerals are usually led by a trained humanist celebrant, who works closely with the family to craft a ceremony that is personal and respectful. The service often follows a clear structure, with a welcome, tributes, moments of reflection, and a final farewell.

This type of funeral is especially suitable for people who lived without religious belief but still want a dignified, heartfelt service.

What is a Celebration of Life?

A celebration of life service is another type of non-traditional funeral. Unlike a humanist funeral, it is not tied to any specific belief system or structure, giving families more freedom to shape the event however they wish.

Celebrations of life can:

• Take place almost anywhere - a crematorium, community hall, garden, beach, or even at home.
• Include religious, spiritual, or non-religious elements, depending on the family’s preferences.
• Focus on uplifting memories, storytelling, music, and creative tributes.

Key Differences Between Humanist Funerals and Celebrations of Life

Both humanist funerals and celebrations of life are ways to say goodbye outside of a traditional religious service. However, they differ in a few important ways:

How Beckfords Can Help

At Beckfords, we understand that every life is unique, and so is every farewell. Whether you are considering a humanist funeral, a celebration of life, or another form of service, we are here to guide you with compassion and care.

Our experienced team can:

• Help you explore the different funeral options available in Guernsey.
• Connect you with celebrants who specialise in humanist or personalised ceremonies.
• Support you in planning every detail, from music and readings to venues and personal touches.

We are committed to helping families create meaningful goodbyes that feel right for them.

Supporting Families in Guernsey

Humanist funerals and celebrations of life both offer thoughtful ways to honour a loved one - but the right choice depends on the beliefs and preferences of your family.

At Beckfords, we are here to listen, support, and guide you through your options. If you would like to talk about arranging a funeral or memorial service, please get in touch with our caring team.